This is for you if youâre ready to find out whatâs really driving those tricky behaviours so that you can be who your kids [and you] need you to be. If you want to stop sweating the small stuf, stop listening to berating sounds of what you âshouldâ be doing and stop worrying about fudging the whole thing up then my 1:1 help is on the way mâdear. Mrs Doubtfire style.

You worry youâre not doing enough. You worry youâre doing too much. You worry that it isnât supposed to be like this, like your kids should be capable of so much more by now. That YOU should be capable of so much more by now. That you should be doing more with them. That you should be doing less for them.Â

The voices, the highlights, the scripts, the frameworks theyâre all so overpowering and leave you with two thoughts. Youâre not good enough. Your kids are broken.Â
Iâve worked with hundreds of families over the last 10 years and guess how many of them were any of those things?Â
Zero. Zilch. None. And you wonât be the first.Â
How can I be so sure? Because parenting isnât about DOing, itâs about BEing.Â
The question isnât âwhat should I do whenâŚâ but âwho do I need to be whenâŚâÂ
And THAT is what I help you discover.Â
See how we can work together

Stuck in the mud
Got a sticky situation or found yourself stuck in the mud with a particular parenting challenge that you don't seem to be able to move through?The stuck in the mud offering is perfect for those niggles that need a fresh set of peepers, some insight and ideas for a fresh approach.Book in, grab a cuppa and have yourself a listening ear, some reassurance and a solution-focused session to pull you out the mud. Â
What's included:
- 1 Hour Consultation Through phone or video callÂ
- Email containing some notes and any relevant resourcesÂ
- Optional add-on of 2 weeks voxer support ($100 available Mon-Fri)
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THE OBLIVION
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A 6 week journey to give you what you need so that you can give it to your kids. As a family therapist I know that you canât give what you havenât been given, if youâre struggling with being able to stay steady in the face of big behaviours or keep your cool when the household is heating up this could be the solution for you. Â
What's included:
- 6 x 1-1.5 hour sessions taking you on a journey from frazzled and hopeless to confident, connected and consistent [not perfectÂ
-Weekly guidance notes and reflection sheets Â
- Email support in between sessions Â
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Let's work
Iâm Sarah B.Â
 I teach cycle breakers the things that really matter when raising darn good humans. I help burnt-out, confused and frustrated parents find the fun in the messy and human parts of day-to-day family life. Balancing the brain and the heart whilst translating neuroscience into nuggets of warm connection is what I do best. A lifelong learner, Iâm committed to bringing you the latest and greatest in play, development, the nervous system and attachment theory.
My specialty is holding a noggin full of niche child development and emotional intelligence facts, but never being able to remember where my car keys are. Ever.Â
 The era of the outside expert is over, the expertise you need is within you. I believe you are the expert, your body knows the answers. You can just use me to provide the treasure map that will help you to get back to you.Â
